Frequently Asked Questions
- Who should read this book?
- Are Kathy and/or her husband available for speaking engagements, book clubs, TV, Radio, and Newspaper articles?
- Why did you write this book?
- How did you start writing this book?
- What helped you to heal?
- What kind of writing style did you use?
- Why did you choose a time-line format?
- What did this experience show you?
- Where can we find this book?
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1.Who should read this book?
- Anyone would enjoy this emotional read
- Medical Personnel
- Funeral Directors
- Hospice Programs
- Relatives & Friends of Grieving Parents
- Churches & Synagogues
- Clergy
- Grieving parents
- Parents
- Grandparents
2. Are Kathy and/or her husband available for speaking engagements, book clubs, TV, Radio, and Newspaper articles?
3. Why did you write this book?
Writing this book was cathartic for me. I needed to let out my emotions in a productive way.
4. How did you start writing this book?
It started out as a hand written memoir but I couldn’t get the words on paper fast enough. I bought my first computer so that I could put the words on paper in way that was quicker for me.
5. What helped you to heal?
My husband, family, a support group, Resurrection Lutheran Church (ECLU), writing, friends, Jesus, and angels sent by God.
6. What kind of writing style did you use?
I wrote in a time-line format. Part one is from when I found out I was pregnant with Mitchell, his life and his death. Part two focuses on the morning after his death until the fall of 2006.
7. Why did you choose a time-line format?
I wanted readers to know how long it can take to become whole and that the grief doesn’t end but it changes. This book is a love story about a beautiful child.
8. What did this experience show you?
- Mitchell taught me so many things.
- I really saw first hand that God is with you always.
- Men and women grieve differently.
- Husbands, wives, and family members do not grieve at the same time.
- Make choices to the best of your ability with the knowledge that you have.
- Live, make your life count, and give to others.

